Home on the Range

8.25.2006

Random act of kindness

The front desk called me this morning to tell me I had a package in the mailroom. Yes, even working for a shipping company, we still get excited when we get something. However, I wasn't expecting anything so I assumed it would be junk a vendor sent since I'm the target for trinkets and gadgets those companies try to get our company to slap our logo on and sell/give away.

Anyway, so I get the box and the label says it's from Bonsai Boy of New York. Huh? Good luck...I don't think [my company] is interested in branding Bonsai trees. So, I open the box and THERE'S A REAL BONSAI TREE INSIDE!

Come to find out, a counterpart in another state that I had helped with a marketing project she was doing for her MBA class had ordered me a Bonsai tree to say thanks. She got an A on the project in which I provided her very detailed information about a marketing campaign I designed centered around [my company]'s service in Asia. I thought it was cool, then, that to say thanks she sent a gift that tied into the theme of the project. Very cool.

Needless to say, I'll have to try to keep the thing alive now in my cube. It's sweet when unexpected surprises find their way into an otherwise dull day. Thanks [insert co-worker's name].

8.24.2006

Blogger's Block

I think I have blogger's block. I can't think of anything to blog about recently, and it's annoying me. I get frustrated when people's blogs go stale, but now mine is and I don't want it to. I'll take requests if anyone has something they want me to blog about.

I saw a pair of size 20 men's shoes today at a surplus store Darin and I went to. Wow. Them's some big feet.

8.19.2006

I just finished reading Not Buying It: my year without shopping by Judith Levine. Jenny read it first, and I finished up last night. As Jenny mentioned in her post, it's a pretty liberal politically charged journal of one couple's year of not buying anything but the essentials (food, generic toiletries, etc.) I think the book could have been a third of the length and still made the point minus all the Bush-bashing and feminist pro-choice rhetoric. Anyway, I thought I'd share one point that I thought was well made.

"Our economy is fueled by desire, ignited and fanned by advertising and easy credit. Yet the satisfaction of our desire by the relentless production and marketing of goods is depleting the earth of its air and its animals and putting some of the world's people under the others' boots. We have enough stuff; most Americans have more than enough. Yet capitalism needs us to want what we do not have. Desire for what we do not have is an infinitely renewable resource."

Granted, our family depends on "marketing" to put food on the table since that's what I enjoy and have chosen as a profession. I don't feel too bad, though, since I do business-to-business marketing and not business-to-consumer. Anyway, the point is that we do have enough stuff, more than enough. And while I think capitalism is a far better way to live than some of the alternatives, it does need us to want more. I feel a little more empowered now to resist and get by with less.

I decided to change it up a little and for my next read chose to pick up Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls. My great-grandmother sent me the book when I was in third grade and I never read it. Last weekend I was going through some stuff in the garage to purge some of those things I don't need and came across the book whose pages had long since turned yellow and brittle. I started it today and hope it keeps my interest. I've always felt kind of bad that I never read it when she sent it to me, so I can cross that guilt off my list if I finish it now. Eli has been wanting a dog for a long time, but we keep telling him that dogs are a lot of work and cost a lot of money. Jenny and I used to say that we'd get a dog as soon as we bought a house. The beginning of chapter 2 made me laugh, and I read it to Jenny.

"I suppose there's a time in practically every young boy's life when he's affected by that wonderful disease of puppy love. I don't mean the kind a boy has for the pretty little girl that lives down the road. I mean the real kind, the kind that has four small feet and a wiggly tail, and sharp little teeth that can gnaw on a boy's finger; the kind a boy can romp and play with, even eat and sleep with. I was ten years old when I first became infected with this terrible disease. I'm sure no boy in the world had it worse than I did. It's not easy for a young boy to want a dog and not be able to have one. It starts gnawing on his heart, and gets all mixed up in his dreams. It gets worse and worse, until finally it becomes almost unbearable."

Poor Eli. Guess the memory of caring for Rexy for a week this summer will have to sustain him until his mean mommy lets him get a dog. I guess the boy in me misses having a dog, too, and I appreciate the "gnawing" Eli feels.

8.16.2006

Backflop video

Thanks to my friend Darin for capturing me at my finest, and for hosting the video for your viewing pleasure (free plug for Darin's business: www.wifiable.us). Just click play on the bar below the box to start the video.

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8.14.2006

Adventures with teenagers

The gang at the "summit" of Mount Taum Sauk

Well, my gig of parenting eight teenagers has come and gone. I spent three days with eight of the boys from church and two other leaders on High Adventure. I'd looked forward to it for several months, and it seems like it was over in a flash. We planned a lengthy hike and a 10-mile canoe trip.

We were supposed to leave at 5:00am Thursday morning, which would have worked had one of the boys not left his sleeping bag at home and had to go back. Much to my surprise, all of them honored our demand that they leave all electronic gadgets (cell phones, PSP's, etc.) at home. The two we suspected would have smuggled their cell phones are actually experiencing life without a cell phone right now, though, since their parents had the service discontinued due to over-usage. Therefore, not even a temptation because what good is a disconnected cell phone?

We planned on a 10-mile hike in the Ozark Mountains (yes, Missouri technically has mountains). We got to Devil's Toll Gate (where the toll is your soul) and had already had our fill of bellyaching so we turned around there instead of continuing to our planned turn-around. All said and done we hiked probably six or seven miles. The mountain we hiked was Mount Taum Sauk, the highest "peak" in Missouri. Funny thing is that the trail head is at the "summit", an elevation of .... 1,772 feet above sea level. Luckily no one got altitude sickness. Other funny thing is that the parking lot/trail head is at the summit, so we actually descended the mountain then had to hike back up. It was a very rugged trail in several places, and very beautiful.
A few of the boys at Devil's Toll Gate

The second day was canoeing. A few of the boys had never been in a canoe before, so that was an amusing sight to behold. I shared a canoe with one of the leaders, a guy who had been in the Priest Quorum, but is now getting ready to go to BYU. It took us about five hours to go the 10 miles, but the river was awesome. It is the Current River which is a totally spring-fed river. The water temperature was between 55 & 60 degrees; even the spots where the water is 15 feet deep you can see all the way to the bottom! We stopped quite a bit along the way to swim and just relax. Yes, the water was the coldest I've ever been in, and I don't see how in the world people do things like Polar Bear Plunges. There was even a tree swing at one point. All the boys were impressed that I gave it a couple of tries. The other leader took a movie of me doing it with his digital camera, and I'll post it if I can figure out how. Let's just say - backflop in two feet of water. The boys said mine was the best. Glad I could impress them with my sweet skills.

Coming back out of Cave Spring. This spring is 120 feet deep at the back at the cave. Early explorers found two wood canoes made by Indians at the bottom of the spring.

We had planned to take them to the George Washington Carver and Harry S. Truman birthplaces on the way back in Southern Missouri. I thought it would be good for them, many who are from families that struggle, to learn about some men who also came from humble beginnings, but with hard work and education went on to do great things. We ran out of time, though, and didn't make it. I'm sure they were disappointed..not.

8.07.2006

It's official...we're all winners!

Official race results for the 9th Annual Chief Joseph Run now available on the Laurel Montana Chamber of Commerce Website. HOWEVER, they have my time wrong. My official time was 18:15. Somehow, they tacked an extra two minutes 53 seconds to my time. Don't worry, they'll be getting an email from me shortly.
http://www.laurelmontana.org/chief_joseph_run_results.html

8.06.2006

Good source of 15 essential vitamins and minerals

Eli, after eating two bites of a Little Debbie "nourshing snack" Oatmeal Cream Bar with Whole Grain Oats (a very lame and disgusting attempt at making a healthy version of my favorite Oatmeal Cream Pie): "Whoa, Dad! I can feel my muscles growing. I'm going to eat the rest of this yummy thing."

Power to 'ya, boy. I think they taste like Elmers Glue.

Seven amazing years


Today's our seventh wedding anniversary (we'll still accept cards in case you forgot to send us one). We were married on Friday, August 6, 1999, in the St. Louis Missouri Temple on a day just about as hot as it is today (100's). Since Jenny's making us be frugal (not such a bad idea), I didn't buy her a card but thought I'd dedicate a post to her. So, I'm going to list seven of my favorite memories of our marriage. There are hundreds more where these came from, but these all are special in one way or another.
  1. The Temple - yes, being married in the Temple was great, but what's far better in my books is that we made going to the Temple regularly a goal early on. We committed ourselves to go every month, and although we've missed some, we've tried really hard to do so. We are three or four hours from our closest Temples, but we have been blessed in numerous ways by trying to attend often.
  2. No TV our first year of marriage - I admit, this one was not necessarily by choice. Our apartment (Stouffer Place - KU Married Student Housing) had free cable, but we didn't have a TV that worked very well. It took about 30 minutes for the screen to warm up, and even then the middle half of the screen was just lines. We tried using it to watch videos, but never even hooked it up to cable. I think this was the best thing for us that first year. We read lots of good books, but more importantly, we talked a lot. I don't think we would have done that if we'd always just sat watching the tube.
  3. Our childrens' births - I don't have to elaborate on this one. Simply one of those things that are purely miraculous and have brought us closer. It's not even as much the births as it is the every-day experience of having someone to raise three cool dudes with.
  4. Getting to say "We can't have anything nice!" - This was a classic in my house growing up anytime someone would spill something on the carpet or something would get broken. Jenny and I get a kick out of saying it everytime "the worst" happens in our home, but for us, it's more a way of us to laugh it off and hopefully teach the boys that things aren't what's important. Also, we don't need "anything nice" for our family to be happy. Heck, just look at our car (complete with 152,000 miles and more quirks as she gets older) and our six-year old computer that has more viruses than you can catch in a third-world country.
  5. House shopping - Although we both agree that we jumped into home ownership prematurely, financially, looking for and buying a home we love was great fun. We love it here and is the best place we've lived in our seven years together. And, might I add, it has a very nice bathroom. Just don't look at the deck that's falling apart - who knew you're better off using one long board rather than piecing scraps together to make railing?
  6. Getting back to our wedding weight, and running the Chief Joseph Race together - Jenny said she loved me chubby, but it's sure a lot more fun to be fit together.
  7. Realizing life wouldn't be the same without my best friend - I feared the worst last year when Jenny was hospitalized with a massive blood clot. The doctor's initial report was very grim, and I've never been more scared. Realizing that I was inches away from losing Jenny, and wondering how I could raise the boys without her, was, in retrospect, a wonderful thing. Sounds bad, I know, but you know what they say about taking things for granted. I think I'd started taking for granted having a wonderful partner and I'm glad to have her with me today.

Happy Anniversary, Jenny. I love you

8.04.2006

Combined activities

A couple people have asked for a copy of the activity we did this week called "Faith Factor". I tried to upload the .pdf, but apparently that's beyond Blogger's ability. So, give this link a try. http://www.jennysmith.net/images/media/Faith-Factor.pdf We did about eight of the questions/challenges and that took about an hour. I also modified some of the questions (like the one about when the Baton Rouge Temple was dedicated. Kids in Kansas have no idea, so I substituted it with the St. Louis Temple since that's our district. I changed a few of the challenges, too. For instance, instead of having one kid carry another, we did a wheelbarrow race across the gym (one kid uses their hands while the second one carries their feet). I also didn't have blindfolds so instead of blind free throws, I had them turn their back toward the goal and shoot backward over their head. Amazingly, one girl sank her first shot-didn't even touch the rim. She got high-fives and knuckles from everyone, even the boys!

If you work with youth or Scouts, www.jennysmith.net is a BIG help. She's got so many activity ideas you'll never run out. Also, it's a "member-fed" site, so if you've done an activity that was fun and the kids liked, share it with everyone else by posting it there.

8.02.2006

Did anyone miss me?

I actually drafted a post several days ago, and just as I hit Publish Post, the stupid AdWare "bug" on our six-year old computer zapped it and I just didn't feel like re-writing. Anyway, I thought I'd just post a ramble tonight about what we've been up to.

  • Eli turned six last Wednesday. I had to make a mad dash to Des Moines that day - left here at 5am, got there at 8 for an 8:30 meeting that was over by 10:00am. Stopped at the hospital to visit an employee that had surgery, back on the road by 12 and home by 3. We got a carry-out pizza, then took the boys to Chuck E Cheese to play arcade games.
  • Spent $16.53 for a hiking waist pack at Cabela's. I'd been wanting one "real bad" and decided to get it as an early birthday present for myself. It was in the Bargain Cave, so I saved $6.
  • Saturday morning we had Eli's birthday party from 10-11am in the backyard. Had something like 13 or 14 kids. It was dang hot, but we played several games and all the kids seemed to have fun. Eli got several Lego sets for things like firetrucks, Batcars, etc. They've played non-stop since then with them, and I'm even getting accustomed to stepping around the small pieces embedded in the carpet throughout the house.
  • Took Eli and Nathan to see Cars. It started at 1:30, and since it's been in the theaters for over a month now, I thought it would be wide open. Jenny dropped us off right at 1:30 since we figured there'd be 20 minutes of previews. We walked into the theater (the movie had been moved to a small one in the 20-plex and much to my dismay it was packed. The only seats left were down on the floor so we sat in the second row from the screen. Ordinarily I'd have been peeved, but it was really cool, especially the scenes where the cars were racing - made it feel 3-D. I used my new waist pack to "smuggle" in popcorn and Capri Suns for us. Jenny laughed, but I told her I was justifying to her that the bag was a "need" and there are lots of things I "need" to use it for, like going to the movies.
  • Sunday was killer. Jenny and I both had early-morning church meetings which meant that all of us got to church at 9am and didn't get home until about 3pm. The boys were exhausted and a bit cranky, just like us. But all in all it was a good day.
  • Last night we had a really fun combined activity for the youth. We played "Faith Factor", a twist on the TV show Fear Factor. The youth had a blast and the boys actually had a good time with the girls. It was also 13 years since I was baptized (August 1, 1993).
  • Today I had to ride with an Account Executive to visit customers. I have to do that 12 times a year to "keep a pulse" on how sales is going in the field. Luckily we only made three calls and I was home by 2pm. We went to a Thai restaurant, called "Thai Restaurant" (so much for originality), that's close to our house. They played real Thai music, which I think adds to the flavor of the food. There's nothing worse than going to Chinese or other ethnic restaurants and having to listen to HipHop or Country. The food was outstanding; I had a rice dish with chicken and basil with chili paste over rice (Gra Prao), but I can't remember what it was called. The waitress was an old Thai lady that I think had a thing for me because she kept coming by flirting with me. She even gave me extra crab rangoons.
  • Got all our credit card balances transfered to a 0% account. Jenny's been wanting to get it done, so I did it tonight. I hate to have another account, but there's no sense paying interest. Debt stinks, that's why we're getting rid of it. Jenny just finished reading "Not Buying It: my year without shopping". I just started it last night.